I N B O D Y 

 

 Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica

 

November 21 - 28, 2026

A seven-day guided journey back into your body led by Ailey Jolie.

In person. On the earth. At the edge of the Pacific.

Join INBODY Retreat

If the phrase "listen to your body" sounds more like a riddle than advice, this retreat was created for you. 

Maybe you have spent years trying to think your way back into your body and it has not worked. Maybe you know the theory — the nervous system, the somatic practices, the language of embodiment — but you still feel like you are watching your own life from somewhere far away. Maybe you have done the online work and you are ready to do it with your feet on the ground, your skin in the heat, and other women in the room beside you.


This is the in-person experience of INBODY. Seven days. Seven body stories. Seven days together.

As women, we are conditioned from a young age to distrust or ignore our bodies' signals. 

We learn to prioritise productivity over presence. To pretend our pain is not there. To shame ourselves for wanting what we want. To suppress our desires for pleasure in favour of pleasing other people.


The most damaging conditioning we receive is the belief that how our bodies appear to others and serve others is more important than how it feels to live within our one and only body.
Disembodiment is what keeps us numb, detached, and stuck, repeating patterns that no longer serve us. It is why we stay in relationships that deplete us. It is why we push past physical pain to present as perfect. It is why we eat when we are not hungry or skip meals when we desperately need nourishment.


Here is what no one tells you: disembodiment is a byproduct of the world we both call home. A world structured to keep us confined within our minds and disconnected from deeply knowing that our body is a place no one else can ever truly go, a place only we can ever fully know, a place that holds the wisdom needed to create our most fulfilling life.

 

The Retreat

SEVEN DAYS.

SEVEN THEMES.

ONE INTENTION: to come to the body.

Each day of the retreat follows one of the seven INBODY body stories — the same arc you may know from the online program, now lived in a room with other women, held by the jungle, the ocean, and a week with nowhere else to be.

 

Day One

Your Body, Society's Story 

We begin where the story began — not with you, but with the culture that shaped you. How capitalist, colonial, and patriarchal forces have distorted your understanding of the body. This is where disembodiment begins.

Day Two

Your Body, The Lineage Story

The stories inherited from mothers, fathers, grandmothers, and unnamed ancestors. Patterns, permissions, silences, and survival. Holding both the grief and the gifts of what was passed down.

Day Three

Your Body, The Food & Weight Story

How your body has been measured, managed, and moralised. Untangling beliefs around thinness, control, health, and hunger through a weight-inclusive lens.

Day Four

Your Body, The Relationship Story

Love, longing, and attachment. How romantic and relational experiences have left somatic imprints. Understanding how your body learned to guard, reach, fawn, or disappear.

Day Five

Your Body, The Stuff Inside Story

The emotions, memories, and sensations that remain stored in your body. Meeting the unfinished stories still held within. Not forcing release, but finally having space to stay.

Day Six

Your Body, The Pleasure Story

Pleasure as a form of remembering. Exploring pleasure's role in well-being, and the shame, silence, and scripts that often surround it.

Day Seven

Your Body, Your Story (A Revision)

Where authorship returns to your hands. Writing a new body story rooted in truth, integrity, and choice.

A DAY AT THE RETREAT

Each day has the same schedule, so your mind can surrender.


Morning movement with Ailey is somatic, feminist, and thematic. This is a practice you cannot access in the online program. It lives here, in the body, in the room, and it changes with each day's theme.


Then breakfast, followed by meditation and reflective journalling.


Free time comes next for the ocean, the hammock, the quiet.

 

After lunch, the afternoon group session is the heart of each day: teaching, discussion, somatic practice. You will move through this material together, not just hear it, but feel it land in your body while other women are feeling it land in theirs.


In the evening, you will be offered a closing somatics practice such as restorative yoga, sound bath, or yoga nidra, followed by a closing reflection.


All dinners are facilitated together, creating space for the kind of unhurried conversation that only happens when women sit with each other long enough to stop performing.


The structure holds you. The space between the structure is where the work lands.

THE PLACE

Blue Spirit sits in the jungle above the Pacific coast of Nosara, Costa Rica, with open-air practice spaces, a salt-water infinity pool, and the sound of the ocean underneath everything.

 

But the retreat is not only about the place. It is about what happens when a small group of women move through this material side by side, sharing meals, sharing silence, sharing a week where no one has to explain why coming home to your body is important. 

 

Nosara is located on the Nicoya Peninsula, one of the world's five Blue Zones, regions where people live the longest and report the highest levels of well-being.

WHAT IS INCLUDED

Seven nights of accommodation at Blue Spirit. All meals, nourishing, vegetarian, and locally sourced. All programming including morning movement, meditation, group sessions, somatic practices, and evening offerings. A retreat journal with daily prompts. A small, intimate group held by Ailey throughout the week.

 

Flights to Nosara and airport transfers are not included. You book your own travel, and full details on getting here will be provided after booking.

Premium Tier

Ocean View

Ocean View room, the most luxurious accommodation at Blue Spirit, with step-out balcony, king bed, A/C, and private bath in the main building.

only one available

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Signature Tier

Mountain View

Mountain View room with step-out balcony, king bed or twin beds, A/C, and private bath in the main building.

only one available

Pacifico Cottage

Pacífico Cottage near the beach with outdoor shower, queen bed, A/C, and private bath.

only one available

Nature Suites

Nature Suite on the hillside with outdoor shower, king bed or twin beds, desk, A/C, and private bath.

six available

Garden Suite

Garden Suite on the hillside with jungle balcony, king bed, A/C, and private bath.

two available

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Essential Tier

Hermitage Queen

Hermitage Queen room in the main building with queen bed, A/C, and private bath. Elegant, intimate, and budget-friendly without compromising comfort.

only five available

Hermitage Twin

Hermitage Twin room in the main building with two twin beds, A/C, and private bath. Perfect for friends attending together.

only one available

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Pricing

All accommodation tiers include three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities.

This is for you if...

  • You have been in the process of coming home to your body, through INBODY or another path, and you are ready to do it in a space with other women. 

  •  You do not need to have completed the online program. You do need to be willing to be in your body, in community, for seven days.

This is not for you if...

  • You are looking for a holiday with some yoga on the side. You want to bypass the difficult material and just feel better. You are in active crisis and need stabilisation before going deeper.

AILEY JOLIE

Creator of the INBODY Method

 

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I know what it feels like to be a stranger in your own skin.


To keep going, keep functioning, keep showing up, while some part of you is not really there. To read all the books and try all the practices and still feel like you are watching your own life from somewhere far away.


I came to the practices of both psychotherapy and later somatics because I needed both equally. I spent years confused, overwhelmed, and lost trying to understand the sensations of my body. I did not understand how I could feel so numb at certain moments and so flooded at others. How I could crave closeness and then feel myself leave the moment anyone got too near. I had experiences early in my life that taught me my body was not safe to inhabit. And I spent a long time believing that if I just understood enough, read enough, tried hard enough, I could think my way back home.


I could not. The body does not work that way. Coming home is not an intellectual project. It is a felt one.


I hold two Master's degrees: one in Counselling Psychology, one in Depth Psychology with an emphasis in Somatic Studies. I completed a certificate in Trauma Recovery through Harvard Medical School. I am a Chartered Psychologist, a Registered Clinical Counsellor, and a Certified Sex Therapist. I have trained extensively in Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems, EMDR, and Jungian depth work. I am currently writing my first book on feminist somatic psychology.


I created INBODY because I kept having the same conversations in my practice. Women were getting fragments when they deserved the whole picture. I wanted to build something that held the complexity. The somatic psychology, the interpersonal neurobiology, the intersectional feminism, and the felt experience, all of it together.


This retreat is the version of that work I have been building toward.

EVERYTHING YOUR MIND NEEDS TO SETTLE

 

We've answered every question we've ever been asked and a few we haven't yet.

Take your time, explore what's relevant to you, and if you still have questions after reading, reach out to [email protected].

We're here to support you. 

You are not buying a retreat.

You are giving yourself seven days to slow down, turn inward, and be held while you do.

Premium Tier

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Premium (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Ocean View room, the most luxurious accommodation at Blue Spirit, with step-out balcony, king bed, A/C, and private bath in the main building. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$5,100.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Premium Ocean View room with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.

Signature Tier

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Signature Mountain View (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Mountain View room with step-out balcony, king bed or twin beds, A/C, and private bath in the main building. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$4,850.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Signature Mountain View room with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Signature Pacífico Cottage (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Pacífico Cottage with outdoor shower, queen bed, A/C, and private bath near the beach. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$4,600.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Signature Pacífico Cottage with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Signature Nature Suite (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Nature Suite with outdoor shower, king bed or twin beds, desk, A/C, and private bath on the hillside. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$4,550.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Signature Nature Suite with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Signature Garden Suite (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Garden Suite on the hillside with jungle balcony, king bed, A/C, and private bath. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$4,800.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Signature Garden Suite with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.

Essential Tier

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Essential Hermitage Queen (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Hermitage Queen room with queen bed, A/C, and private bath in the main building . Elegant, intimate, and budget-friendly without compromising comfort. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$4,100.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Essential Hermitage Queen room with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.

INBODY Retreat | Costa Rica | Essential Hermitage Twin (Pay in Full)

7 nights at Blue Spirit, Nosara, Costa Rica | November 21–28, 2026. Hermitage Twin room with two twin beds, A/C, and private bath in the main building . Perfect for friends attending together. Your purchase includes three gourmet meals daily, full INBODY retreat programming with Ailey Jolie, and access to all Blue Spirit amenities including yoga shalas, pools, and meditation spaces.

$4,100.00 USD

Payment plan option available.

Looking to share the Essential Hermitage Twin room with a friend or loved one?

Please email [email protected] for special pricing.